Self Confidence

Hey Momz, Have you ever been in a place where your self confidence was feeling defeatedπŸ™‹πŸ»β€β™€οΈ? This was once me πŸ™‹πŸ»β€β™€οΈ. Let me share my story: In 2017 I was in a car accident which cause some permanent short term memory loss and in the midst of that I lost some self confidence because I was not for sure of many things due to the fact that I was experiencing some memory issues. Now as a Mom, this affected my entire life because my memory played a role in my relationship with my husband and children (appointments, dates, events, and etc). During this time, I attended therapy for my memory to help build and regain that muscle; however, through it all I still remained less confident. I was less confident in the fact that when I would have conversations with my husband and children that I would forget what we discussed and I felt so horrible about it but I could not help it. I was less confident in the fact that I would schedule appointments for myself, my husband, or my children and totally miss the appointment because I could not remember. Even talking to my extended family, we would have a conversation and they would be like “we already talked about that” and to me it felt like the first conversation we ever had about that particular topic, weighed on my self confidence. Then I begin to go into prayer with God and ask for memory restoration and tools to help me as a Mom to regain my self confidence and over time, God did just that 🌟. Through dreams God gave me resources: he literally told me to go buy this huge dry erase board and write things down and so I did πŸ€·πŸΌβ€β™€οΈ. To this day, I still write things down; I have my to do lists and I have an ongoing list on my phone πŸ“± . I have this scripture Jeremiah 29:11 that I memorized “For I know the plans I have for you, says the Lord, plans to prosper you and not to harm you, plans to give you hope and a future” to also help regain my self confidence as a Mom.

Now because I was experiencing low self confidence, this affected my ability to do public speaking because I was afraid that I would forget the words. Now this fear of public speaking consumed me for about a year and some months. About a few weeks ago, I begin seeking my faith in fear. Although, I had heard many times from my Pastor and my husband that fear is the enemy, I never had my ah ha moment until I begin to dig deeper into my faith did my fear begin to disappear. I learned that the book of Psalms (56:3) is a great instruction on helping me to cast out my fear with faith. On Friday, June 21, 2019 I did my first short video on my Instagram which was about 7 seconds long. Although I was extremely nervous 😬, those few seconds gave me a boost of confidence to move me into the direction of my purpose. I wrote this because there may be some Moms who may be experiencing some self confidence and may need a boost πŸ€—πŸŒŸπŸŒŸ. To all the Moms that are thriving through low self confidence, I would encourage you to take some time to do some self reflecting and to work on you because you have a Divine purpose πŸ€—πŸ₯°. #momsrock #moms #mothers #empoweringmoms #selfconfidence

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Hey Momz have you ever been at a point in your life where you feel like you have lost yourselves by totally giving your all to your family and disregarding yourself. Well that was totally me. I was so focused on ensuring that family was taken care of that I totally forgot to take care of myself first. This blog is designed to provide tools to the everyday parent to remind Momz that you matter. A lot of times we get caught up by the images of parenting through television and social media which does not actually portray the reality of parenthood for the average parent. Majority of parents do not live the celebrity life and we must learn to balance (find harmony)full time jobs (9-5), spouse, children, appointments, social life, friends and extra curricular activities. This roadmap platform is designed to educate, empower, support and elevate Momz in their everyday lives. I am not only a forward thinker but a pioneer for every facet of the modern day woman. This style of empowerment is virtual but yet appealing. For many years I have used my voice to empower, equip and educate Momz to finding balance in their lives by providing resources, tips, tools from everyday life. I have allowed my faith in leading her my obedience to every instruction which has shaped my authentic life. Through my healing and resilience that I have experienced, this has given me the ability to help other Momz. These qualities and determination is what makes me qualified to lead Momz from pain to victory. I am a full-time mom and maintain full-time career. I am the CEO of RoadMap2Balance4Momz which provides creative direction and innovative ways for Momz to find and maintain harmony/balance in their life. In this role, I have brought clarity and life to numerous Momz. My authority is further solidified through higher learning. I have earned a Masters Degree Science of Human Behavior from Capella University and I continue to educate myself regularly. I am married and am a proud mother of 5 and love my family. I have a passion for living authentically and just having fun. I can’t wait to connect with all of you real soon. This journey will not only benefit you but it will also benefit myself as we take this journey together. Thank you for taking this leap of faith with me πŸ€—πŸŒŸ #selflove #selfcare #momlife #momsrule #harmony #balance #bepatientwithyourself #bepatient#empoweringeomen #moms #momsworkhard #momsfashion #cantatopwontstop #colorado #DC #Alabama

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